Wwhy dont mexican americans try to fit in with american culture and society?!?

i mean its so annoying! Im mexican american but i hate when other mexican americans act like they're in Mexico. a lot of them speak spanish in public, display the mexican flag everywhere, etc. it gets on my nerves! and i hate when they say things like "gringos are stupid" " gringos cant get rid of us" "you cant deport us all" its stupid! and then they get mad when people are racist! well no ****! ur coming here and disrespecting this country! it also gets me mad how a lot of mexicans enter this country undocumented and think they can just take over and dont want to learn the language! they should try to fit in and not try to take the **** over and now everyone has to learn spanish cuz ofstupid people who dont learn ****** english!!!! gosh!!!!! its just so irritating